What’s the best way to get my girlfriend to orgasm quickly? —Aaron A., Aiken, SC

If you want her to come fast, it’s important to put her on top so she can control the speed and angle of the intercourse. Though it may be tempting for you to try extra humping from underneath, don’t do it. That will just screw up her tempo. So fight those urges and stay still and try to make sure she’s able to get good leverage. But you’re not entirely still. you have hands—so use them. Grab onto her butt or back, or hold onto the back of her head in a sensual way. And if you’re sitting upright, you’ll get bonus points for kissing her neck and whispering how sexy she is in her ear.

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