July 31 is National Orgasm Day. And, instead of celebrating in the comfort of your home, you’re stuck reading about it at work. (Just don’t get caught trolling the Internet or daydreaming—that’s an awkward scenario to explain to your boss.)

We’re not sure who started the day-of-all-national-days (though we’d put money on condom and sex toy companies), or where it started, but one thing is certain: You don’t want your partner to fake an orgasm today. No sir. You want her to have the most mind-blowing orgasm ever. And you should, too. So, we’ve compiled our best content from surveys, experts, and real women to give you endless ways to help you both climax. 

First thing’s first—oral sex. You can’t just jump into bed and expect her to orgasm five minutes later without any kind of warmup stimulation. To make sure you’re making her eyes roll for all the right reasons, check out these do’s and don’ts. 

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Special events like holidays, vacations, and birthdays call for some spectacular sex. But an adventurous romp can quickly turn into an awkward game of Twister real fast, so if you’re looking to try something out of the norm, check out these stories:

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And sometimes you just need tried-and-true advice sans the bells and whistles. For all your basic tips and fool-proof information, read here. 

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