Be honest: how confident do you feel about your foreplay skills?

If the answer is “not very,” you’re not alone. A lot of men are confused about what women expect when it comes to foreplay.

The good news: foreplay really doesn’t need to be as complicated as most men imagine. (For starters: stop taking your cues from porn.)

By following just a few guidelines, you can dramatically up your foreplay game. Here are nine ways to impress her during foreplay.